Without being an elegant woman, Men will always suck !!!!!

The meaning of being a woman has changed into something that really does not symbolize the beauty of a woman at all. Its incredible the progress that women have achieved throughout history, Women have shown how strong and driven they could be. While women are capable of much more then child bearing and playing Susie homemaker, The femininity seemed to get lost during the transition. What makes a women so beautiful is her elegance and mystery. Yes, women are independent and capable of achieving many things but a woman should still be proud enough to carry herself with elegance and class. Is it really necessary trying to out due a man to prove a point? Its like a man competing with us about doing his hair and nails better then we ever could, weird right ? well unfortunately there are straight men that do this and what a turn off that is(unless you like that kind of thing). Of course I'm
all for girl power and stuff but to a certain extent. How sexy is it to see an independent, intelligent woman that is mysterious and still soft enough to allow a man to feel like one. So what if you could open your own door, Men do know you are capable of handling such a task by the way, The thought of the action is what makes the difference. Its not because you cant do it, its because they were taught to court you and treat you with respect. Yea, we totally enforced that lesson. The only reason I argue this topic is only because of the statement that are made today such as "Men are not gentlemen anymore"or "Men suck". Ladies, I am on your side but unfortunately, the only reason they have turned into these creatures is because we have allowed them to. I mean what else do you expect when the reaction they receive is making a women feel insulted for doing something she is 100% capable of doing herself. Confusing is the only thing they get from us and as if we weren't confusing enough as it is.

We are not the only one's to blame ofcourse, the men species today are really embracing their new role and boy do they love it. Women do not take care of their men just as much as men not taking care of their women. Things like going "dutch"on dates, letting a woman fix things around the house, and allowing a woman to carry heavy things without offering her help are all things that a man does not hesitate to allow in this society. In that case what do I need a man for if hes just going to sit on the couch and wait for dinner to be served while he plays video games and the only hard work he has done all day was change the tv from HD to USB mode. Yea thank goodness for whoever created vibrators. Incase you have some ideas for why they are useful let me see if I can limit your list. Animals are great cuddlers, Sperm comes in jars, children are entitled brats, vibrators never want to please themselves and come in a variaty of shapes, sizes, and movement, Friends are much better at remembering birthdays and are great listeners, good jobs make great providers, and Wine can make any bad situation feel not so bad after a couple sips.You can not blame a women for not wanting to cook for you when not only are they working just as hard but, are expected to happily come home and take care of you as well. Unless you have some magic machine we do not know about, you better start putting in more work then just late night stamina that gets lazy after a while anyway.   Ladies don't get too excited, Men have a list as well and its just as bad.

Of course, I do not promote being alone as a positive thing but unless we embrace what has been the meaning of being a man and being a women, we really serve no other purpose then to reproduce. That argument is for another day and society expectations have nothing to do with survival and reproduction. Here's the main point, We hold the power whether men like it or not. What men do for the "benefit" of a women is outstanding. If we don't change, neither will they for the simple fact of, "why buy the cow, when your getting the milk for free". Embrace the fact that you are a strong independent women. Be confident enough to know you would be just fine without a man, When confident in yourself, allowing a man to court you does not become a threat instead becomes a standard. When allowing yourself to become a mystery, a man cant help his curiosity and a curious man is a determined man. Finally, Stand with elegance and respect. To demand respect of yourself gives no other option then to be respected. A true women is sexy enough to spark the interest of any man she encounters but is respected enough to be the envy of every women who can not be her and the desire of every man that can not have her. That is the true beauty of a woman.